Who is in your circle of influence?
This question may seem for some to be irrelevant. You may feel that you do not discriminate because discriminating is bad. Well, I am here to shed a little light on that for you. While I do that you will have to go through your mind and take inventory of the people you are currently associated with and welp, things are about to get a bit uncomfortable. So if you want things to remain the same in your life then stop reading this blog post right now....
So you are still here? Well here we go.
You may have heard that you are the sum total of the FIVE, YES 1-2-3-4-5 closest people around you. Now, take a mental inventory of who you are hanging around with, who you are kicking it with, who you roll with and you will learn really quickly what YOU are all about. Sure you will argue that you are all unique individuals, well are all of you unique individuals in a growing forward movement?
Here are some clues to help you out:
What books are you reading? (Not reading any books ummm...)
What classes are you attending?
Where are you networking?
Personally or professionally have you tried any new ventures?
Have you closed off any part of your life and chalked it up to having to do without that part?
If ANY of your responses results in you participating in a routine that causes stagnation, you need to start today doing something different. No matter how very little, do something different. In your current situation ask yourself this question, "How is this helping me gain financial freedom, the relationships I desire, and developing parenting skills." These are just a few of the questions that you should ask yourself.
One of the most effective changes you can make will be to get a better 5 around you. You will not make a huge announcement to the individuals about how they are the rotten apples in your world. But you will need to arrange to be in new places to draw new people your way.
Here are some ways to get a new 5:
By picking up new and different books, those will certainly open you up to new possibilities.
Join a meet up group in your city to meet new people.
Go to a new cafe and talk to strangers, get uncomfortable!
I told you that you will lose some friends with this post. Until next time, Have a Super Day!