Have you ever seen the Jamie Foxx show where Jamie for years was trying to get with fancy and it seemed like on every account she just wasn't interested (in public) but privately she had her moments where she found herself missing key parts about him (think back when he left to sing with kc and Jojo) no matter what happened at the end Jamie got his lady.
I gave you that message to say this. Sometimes the very thing that we want isn't what we need at that moment. The more we give and give to a person, place or thing can set us straight for a moment but the person, place or thing that we truly need makes us wait until it's the right moment.
You can't rush what is already meant for you no matter how you try to align your time the right way it's never going to truly satisfy you because you rushed to get it.
It's like being in a relationship that you wanted for so long but because you rushed the timing of it, now your back at square one wishing you would of stayed patient.
The moral of my message is the things you want most will come but stay persistent, stay true and remain humble.
What are the benefits of giving up in your relationship? What am I trying to save? What am I trying to let go?
Give up those things in your relationship that are toxic/ or holding no value so that you can really be prepared for that special thing that makes you laugh/ smile.
Giving up is easy but remaining consistent and strong in the midst of triumph is the hard part. If your with someone and they can't challenge your mind what's the benefit in having them.
Each day I am learning that relationships are about compromise it's about sacrifice, communication, trust , respect etc. What are you willing to sacrifice for your relationship is it friends, family a job even?
I'm also realizing that questions are the most important trait when learning someone, they way their body language reacts to questions the way their eyes shift during a conversation or even the way they text you during the day all plays apart.
Take the first step in realizing what's building and what's failing and determine the "WHY" while doing so.
Let's talk about the value of trusting your significant in a relationship and hearing them speak ??
We first have to define what trust is: Trust is defined as a firm belief in the reliability, truth, ability or strength of someone or something..
Okay so let's break this down in terms it states having a "Firm" belief- so it's not stating a soft belief or a hard belief but a firm belief in the "RELIABILITY" "TRUTH" "ABILITY" or "STRENGTH" of someone or something
So now we have to ask during the course of this relationship is the person you are with I.e dating or courting( an older term) or even married to reliable meaning can you depend on that person when you are going through a rough time or not feeling yourself
Do you believe that this person is always keeping it 100 with you can you trust what they are telling you Is their ability to comfort you "reliable" enough to handle all aspects of you meaning what makes you emotional, those trigger moments and those off times ( the times you want to shut down )
Their strength it's simple CAN THEY HANDLE YOU?
Not everyone is equipped to handle what comes with you many will try, some will come closer to the goal line and others will fail at mile marker one.
Questions that you have to ask yourself and your partner at the beginning of any relationship and during the relationship, no one wants a relationship that's built on lies, mistrust and no clear understanding on the "WHY" that's built around you.
I challenge anyone who's in a relationship no matter what stage you're currently in to ask those questions and take the time to listen to what your partner is saying
Queen Najia has done it once again with her newest single "Lie to Me" featuring Lil Durk. "Lie to Me" is the hottest new single sweeping the nation. The video which is being directed by Teyana Taylor showcases a unique connection that takes place between Naija and Durk which makes fans wonder what will happen next. In lite of her new album missunderstood she is also adding some other amazing features including "Pack Lite" (which has more than 42 million combined global streams) and "Butterflies Pt. 2" (which has more than 63 million combined streams). Queen Naija is setting the mark in this industry. Her album misunderstood is set to be released by her label Capitol Records on October 30, 2020. Take a look at the amazing visuals below that Queen Naija and Lil Durk have cooked up
Someone once asked me what is my purpose? I had to first define what purpose is and it's meaning. It's defined that purpose is
"The reason for which something is done or created or for which something exists."
Now normally I would be quick to respond to that, but this time it was different. I had to literally take some time to think about what my purpose was. I knew that everyone in life has a purpose, but it was the "when" their purpose was to be activated. It got me to thinking we are either one of two types of people we are either givers or we are takers. I felt in that moment that my purpose is to be a giver. I know some people are like why would you give so much just to not be on the receiving end at least once. My answer is so simple it's to give people opportunities, it's to enhance others in their business, it's to provide people with an alternative option other than the bare minimum.
My purpose is FAITH DRIVEN, it's a different drive that most people want but don't know how to achieve it. My purpose is valuable it's worth more than some would ever want to work hard for. Now the question is WHAT IS YOUR PURPOSE? How can you be unique in your own way without having the purpose of someone else, yes that is possible you can have the purpose of someone else however you wouldn't know how to handle it because it's not yours. I challenge everyone who may be reading this to execute your purpose and not lose sight of what that true calling is.